ilysm xx

For a long time, whenever I made room in my heart for a guy, and they would leave me or ignore me and date someone else lol or go back to his ex or cheat, I was left feeling low about myself. I truly thought there must be something wrong with me and that made…

Yoo hoo! Only me, again.

So like I know no one was waiting for my next blog or anything lol but here I am! 2018 was an AMAZING year for me, so amazing that I forgot to update my blog hehe. I didn’t win the lotto, I didn’t shed enough weight to be a size 12 again, I didn’t get…

Break-Ups: What will be, will be.

A friend of mine came to me for post-break up advice. I’m no expert in failed relationships, but I’ll admit there have been a few lol. He vented, his girlfriend of 5+years dumped him and has moved on to someone new. He said he’s heart broken, and doesn’t know what to do. I thought Looooord…

Good Deeds, for likes?

I saw a Facebook post the other day, the author shared a screen shot of another person boasting about their good deed. She commented that people shouldn’t make a public post on social media every time they do something good for someone else, just get on with the good deed and be quiet about it….

Powerless to Power Source

For a long time I was in a very malignant frame of mind. Behind my smiles I was afraid of being alone, afraid that no one would love me, and insecure. I thought I needed someone to love me in order for me to be happy. I was so desperate to be loved, that I…

Me vs. the D

D for Depression. If you thought the D was something else I’m sorry to disappoint your nasty ass lol, but stay with me anyway. This is just an account of what I went through. Depression is a touchy subject for some people, even a few close to me still don’t really talk about it. Ive…

I choose U.

Quite often I come across posts, and screenshots of quotes advising other people to ‘Choose people who choose you’. Don’t give energy, time or love to anyone who doesn’t give that to you in return or first. It made sense to me at one stage. Why should you help someone who has betrayed your trust?…

Thou shall not not judge, as thou hast f**ked up too.

When you make a mistake, whatever the magnitude, you will be aware of it. You’ll know “oh fish sticks, that was wrong”, you’ve made a poor judgement somewhere. Sometimes we feel that regret, embarrassment or guilt immediately. Sometimes we realize it later in self reflection, and in some cases we feel it after we’ve been…

So this is a blog, aye?

A little insight on why I’ve started this blog. “Blogging will lead to better life habits” – Some blogger guy.   Okay, alright, lets get started. I’ve been on this planet for twenty-odd years, and with that time one would usually acquire a good base of knowledge through personal experience and such (hopefully lol). I…